May I answer this? 😅
I might sound like the villain here, especially to younger guys who date women their age or older, but this is simply how I see it.
I think some women genuinely enjoy being cared for in a relationship. They don’t always want to make every decision themselves. Sometimes, they would rather have their partner choose the date location, pick something they’ll enjoy, surprise them with thoughtful gifts, and handle the little details.
For some women, this may come from growing up being treated like a princess by their fathers. As a result, they may naturally appreciate receiving that same kind of attention and care from their partner.
With younger men, however, the dynamic can sometimes be different. They may naturally view their partner as an equal and prefer a more 50/50 relationship—not only financially, but also when it comes to making decisions and sharing responsibilities.
Of course, independence doesn’t mean that traditional gestures are wrong. Opening the car door, pulling out a chair, buying flowers or chocolates, planning a date, or simply making her feel cared for can still be thoughtful and romantic.
Sometimes, a woman doesn’t want to be responsible for every little decision. She may simply want to say, “You decide,” and feel confident that her partner will take care of things. It doesn’t mean she can’t handle things herself—it can simply feel good to be looked after.
So perhaps it’s not really about age. It may be more about the type of relationship dynamic each person prefers. Some couples want complete equality in almost everything, while others enjoy a more traditional “let me take care of you” kind of relationship. 😒
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