A “friend” (20F) is attracted to me (16M)

I am in a group chat with several of my friends. Very diverse range of ages. One person in the groupchat I’m not particularly close with has shown… interest in me. They are the oldest of the group at 20 and I’m the youngest still a minor for a year and a half. They routinely send hearts in messages, message me about wanting cuddles and generally just being weird while I’m in a call with the others. This wasn’t bad until the other day.

Yesteray, she was in call with my best friend (18F). She kept asking where I was in what my friend described as “a whiny voice”. My friend then heard “wet tapping noises and heavy breathing from the 20 yo’s microphone” between asking where I was. Me and my friend are very open about stuff regarding romance and sexuality (I’m aroace so she knows I don’t think of her as anything other than platonically). I tried to suggest it was anything but, but she insisted that “she knows what masturbation sounds like, she’s a girl, that was 100% what she was doing.”

After this I joined the call. The 20 yo muted up because “her mom told her she was being too loud” (time zones it was midnight for her). My friend left and the 20 yo insisted on staying muted and just typing while I talked. No I’m not stupid, I know what she was doing.

I would leave the gc and block her but I have close friends in the gc, some of which she introduced me too.

What the fuck do I do?

Update: I messaged a friend who is closer to her than me. He shared me DMs of that night. She may have been having a mental health episode. She messaged him about hurting and feeling stuff under her skin and apologizing, wanting to take her skin off. I’m not 100% what to believe and I’m going to talk to my bsf about it to try and get further opinions.

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