Me (23M) and my girl (24M) have been together for like a year now, and throughout the year we have learned each others bodies pretty well. I know what gets her goin and her me, however I have still not been able to make her orgasm. For some background we are each others’ firsts, and I don’t have a well sized penis. (4 in and thin, unfortunately). That being said, I find difficulty (due to size limitations? Not enough motion in the ocean?) to get her to orgasm during intercouse. I have much better luck with my hands, however. I, for a long time, have been able to get her to the point where she gets her back bending and moaning, but she almost always ends up having me stop when she gets all tense and closes up slightly (assuming that’s when the orgasm is supposed to happen? Makes the most sense to me.).
Due to the fact that I am the first person to please her intimately, including herself, I have come to the conclusion that she is plainly scared of the intense feelings of an orgasm? Every time she stops me, she looks at me, either laughing or smiling, and says somethings along the lines of “Oh my god I love you” or “The things you make me feel, boy.”, so I know I satisfy her, however I want to satisfy her beyond her understanding of being satisfied, yk?
I don’t know, but she gets me spewing like a fountain within a minute of her touching me. I would love to return the favor, especially since my size gets in the way of pleasing her (adequately) during sex.
Also any tips for us shorter (not height) gentlemen? I just want to satisfy the fuck out of her, because I love her and want her the experience the same bliss I do when we do it. We stay away from toys because we feel that it makes it less intimate.
Seriously need some help. I gotta get her to the finish line and could use all the help I can get!
Forgot to mention, we have discussed it in the past, and every time I have asked her why she doesn’t let me get her to finish, she just says “I dont know”
Side note: We just don’t do oral in our relationship. Both of us were raised in cultures/families where it’s viewed pretty negatively, and it kinda shaped how we see intimacy. It’s not some issue with attraction or lack of chemistry, it’s just a boundary we both naturally ended up sharing and respecting.
Edit: Thanks for all the feedback, guys, please excuse my naiveness, I am as new to this as she is, and I’m just trying to show her a good time! Love you all, thanks for the tips.
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