I 25m have been dating my gf 24F for almost 4 years now. We met in high school and started dating shortly after. I had a few bodies before her but I was her first.
It took us abt 6 months to engage into these activities because it always felt awkward and there never seemed to be great sexual chemistry. That has kinda how it’s been since then as well. We would go through phases of having sex a lot and then not very often. But never this bad. I have told her that I don’t always like being the 1 who has to make the first move as it makes me feel undesirable.
But she never makes the first move so I end up doing it anyways. The sex itself is fine. No MAJOR complaints. I js know that there isn’t any REAL sexual chemistry. I only know this because the girl i dated before, me and her had great chemistry.
Anyways, we haven’t had sex in almost 4 months because I havnt waned to make a move. She expresses the desire to have sex but never make a a move. And tbh, I js don’t want to. Sex is no longer a big part of my
Life anymore.
I’m fine without it. I’m at a point where I’d rather shake my chicken instead of attempt to have sex. To add on top of that our relationship has been in a bit of a rough patch as well.
My question is what do I do? Is there a way to fix this? And for long term couples is it necessary to have great sexual chemistry.
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