I’m 23(F) and my Husband (19M).. we got married in March of 2026 and have had “special” times only 3 times. The night of our wedding I had to at least beg to give him a BJ so I felt like the expensive lingerie I bought was not wasted.
We met last year and I wasn’t really looking for anything serious, but he was. He doesn’t know this. One thing lead to the next and we ended up pregnant like two months after knowing each other.. oops. But unfortunately we lost our daughter in September 2025. It took a toll on us and we actually separated in November but came back and thought the relationship was stronger.
I mentioned marriage a couple times jokingly but didn’t really care either way. If we were married or not. However, he is religious and feels as if we were punished for having sex and having a short lived pregnancy outside of marriage. Thinking we would get married we would have “blessings”
I felt like we had sex wayyyyy more before marriage and it seems like we have came to almost a halt since being married.
I have never turned him down, maybe once because morning sickness. But I am always in the mood and ready to go.. I always make jokes that guys would love to have someone like me because they’d never have to beg..usually I “joke” whenever I am pissed off after rejection for the 500th time.
I have checked his phone and found absolutely nothing. No porn, no weird sites, all squeaky clean. 🧽
I have dolled myself up, worn lingerie, been fully naked, invited him to showers, tried to initiate but no luck.
I feel guilty for thinking about how it would be to get a side piece but I would rather work things out with him..if it’s fixable.
It’s more than just sex. It is physical intimacy altogether. He won’t hold hands with me, he won’t kiss me in public. He says it’s weird for him and his friends have confirmed he was like that with his exes as well.
I check in with him mentally several times a day. House is spotless. I help with what I can always, he never has to lift a finger for nothing.
I don’t know what to do!!???
I’ve considered divorce already…
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