I broke up with my gf this past weekend after almost 2 years together. I 27m woke up early to get my gf 26f coffee, donuts, and give her a new Apple Watch because she had a good year of teaching and she just had her last day of school.
I went to her house (we usually stay at my house over the weekends but she wanted to stay home for some reason) and gave her the goodies and then left soon thereafter to go do my weekend chores. She came over later crying and I didn’t know what was going on.
She then proceeded to say we wouldn’t work long term and that we should break up. This caught me extremely off guard as we were doing really well and talking about financial futures and have made timelines for getting engaged.
After a long night of conversations and crying we decided to finish that conversation the next day. She went home and came back the next morning and then said she had to share something first. 4 days earlier she had called her Ex late at night to “catch up and reconnect…” then the next night when she would usually come over to stay the weekend she said she didn’t want to because she had to pack for a trip in the morning.
When I came over to give her all the gifts she felt really bad and thought the only solution was to break up with me so that’s what she tried to do but now she doesn’t actually want to break up and wants the relationship to keep going. I was stunned at that and given some of her history and some of our incompatibilities, I think we should in fact break up.
I don’t know if just calling an ex to catch up and reconnect is considered cheating but it doesn’t feel right and not something I want to see play out long term so could use some other people’s thoughts on the situation. Did I over react?
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