I (28F) am in a bit of a state of shock right now and really need some advice on how to handle a horrific situation that happened today at work.
I was working a weekend shift where we are currently getting paid premium time and a half. I had to head into the office area to report my findings as the lead operator regarding an operational issue my coworker had brought to my attention earlier. The office setup is basically a main door that was propped wide open with just a mesh bug screen pulled shut. The lights inside were completely off.
Because the lights were out, I figured no one was in there (or maybe he was sitting in the dark cause he does that sometimes) and walked right in. Instead, I immediately walked in on my coworker sitting at the desk. His pants were completely down around his ankles, he had his phone in one hand on the desk, and he was actively jerking off with the other.
I panicked, gasped out an “OH MY GOD,” turned right around, and left. I ended up having a bit of nervous laughter afterward just from the sheer absurdity and discomfort of the situation. To make matters worse, there is a massive glass window on the other side of the office; if I had approached from the other direction, I would have had a direct, full-frontal view of everything.
In my absolute panic and desperation to defuse the immediate tension because we still had hours left on our shift, I awkwardly told him that I wouldn’t tell anyone. I ended up calling my dad later, who briefly laughed at the sheer absurdity of the situation with me to help me calm down.
But now the shock has worn off and I am honestly feeling incredibly uncomfortable and a bit traumatized. Who does that at work, let alone with a wide-open screen door and a giant window where anyone could walk by? On top of that, he’s literally getting paid time and a half to do that.
The Dilemma:
A friend of mine thinks I should absolutely report him to our boss. However, I’m feeling a lot of anxiety about turning someone in and potentially getting them fired or ruining their livelihood, especially since I initially blurted out that I wouldn’t say anything. On the other hand, I am deeply uncomfortable even being near that office now or interacting with him.
What do I do?
Do I walk back my panic-induced promise and report this to management/HR?
If I do report it, how do I even frame this to my boss without it being incredibly awkward?
If I don’t report it, how am I supposed to navigate working shifts alone with this person?
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